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If you are dealing with a manipulator—whether it’s a toxic boss, a draining family member, or an ex—you have likely realized that logic does not work. You cannot "reason" someone into respecting you if they benefit from disrespecting you. Nanami Kento from Jujutsu Kaisen is the blueprint for this. He doesn’t argue with chaos; he creates a system that contains it. To protect your peace, you must stop trying to change them and start changing your environment . 1. The Rule of Ownership: If You Take the Blame, You Make the Rules Before you can set boundaries, you need the right mindset. Most people try to control you because they are insecure. They want you to do things their way so they feel safe. Here is the truth: In the real world, if a project fails, the blame usually falls on one person. If you are that person, you must be the one in charge. Don't let others project their fears onto you. If you are responsible for the result, you get to choose the method. Being firm ...