When To be rational when to be emotional

Every individual has there own ways of dealing with there personal thing. If you are strunggling in this kind of situation where, you are unble to choose whether to act emotionally or rationally. This can provide you a better perspective at the context your life situation to take better decision.

#Your Heart Vs Your Brain

Often times you struggle where you have feelings attached as it's normal for human being get attached to things, people, animals or anything that you give your attention and time. Whether to go with the feelings or take things rationally. If the current situation you are dealing with is not the first time and you've gone through the same situation before, taking the same actions you did in the past will bring you same results that means the current situation will be part of your life again in the future. Whether it's from you heart, head or gut. Take the decision that is hard to make because often times the hard decision is the right one.

#What is this situation?

It could be someone's funeral who disrespected you, doesn't valued you and betrayed you. Choose to go with the choice that won't make you regret about the kind of person you had been when you look back in life. You have full freedom to choose what you want to do and what choices you make. Same situation for two different person will be totally different how they look and act on the situation. People advice what would they've done, but it's your life nobody could dictate the right decision from you. Only you are the person who is responsible for what this body of yours do and say.

#Situation's Demand

Sometimes everything around you wants you to act in a certain way "the situation's demand" and you should go with it. We human being forget quite often that we as an individual won't last longer than around hundred years. You really get the right perspective when you keep this thing in mind. Make sure your decision brings happiness, peace and no regrets in long terms. You can't act in a same way in all situations going on in your life. For example:

It's your boss acting mean towards you or bully you. One way is you can show him/her your anger and either loose your job or he/she learns the lesson and acts accordingly from now on. Another way is you complaint against him/her to Authority and let them handle the issue.

It could be your toxic family member/members who are no longer good for your health. You can either talk to them and request them to avoid any conflict from now on, or you can leave the place and maintain a healthy distance from them.

There are always multiple ways to deal with a perticular situation and you can go for any that you find good for you. As it's your life it won't impact anybody not related to you, for now.

#Right time not to act

Not all situations needs your attention and time. As time passes things are fixed own it's own and the one who can recognise this kind of situation will save a big amount of time in there life. Anything triggering that is done on purpose to make you act in a certain or other way. just don't react at this time. Be rational and figure out does it really need your attention and time. If you find the situation and the people involved worthy of your attention give in otherwise don't waste your energy and time on things that can't be fixed or doesn't add one percent value in your life. Being a rational all the time does drain your energy. If you are someone open to idea of intuition follow it. It is accurate when you are totally unaware what to do and when to do. You can also use your subconscious power.

#What will you loose

This section really belongs to rational thinkers. As they are the ones often see things from profit-loss perspective. By being rational or emotional what will you loose? Is it something materialistic gains? Go for materialistic things only if you are not loosing your loved ones or there trust and love towards you.

#The right choice

The hard one that takes all your courage is often right choice. Take your decision based on the amount of value it is adding in your life. Recently founder of Microsoft got divorced. It would be hard for them but there is always a way through things can workout and that is hard too. But if is becomes a roadblock in your growth as an individual go for the hard choice that brings you a  better life.