What To Do When Life Doesn't Meet Your Expectations
1. It's Okay if things went wrong
Since you were born till you die. This will happen to you, just think you wouldn't had the best things you currently have in your life. If things would have been according to you. At this current time, it might seem the best thing to you, but after 5 years or 10 years you will see things, and connect your dots, that if things would have been according to plan, you wouldn't have improved, you wouldn't have came this far in life. Growth happens when you fall, learn to get up and start again.
2. Recognise What went wrong
It is a fact that you cannot control everything but you can control something. Look at the aspects of the scenario and try to understand what is the most logical, ethical and doable thing or action you can take to improve over the current life situation. You are the best of your kind and go with that feeling.
3. Things you can't control
Please don't try to control/ blame/ regret things you cannot control. Things you cannot control are under control of the Universe, God or The positive force you believe in. Whatever happened has a reason and meaning that may or may not bother you. Just go with the life that is eternal and never ending.
4. Ending is the new beginning
Every season new leaves, flowers, babies are born. It is deeply rooted in nature here on earth that everything that has been born will die. Beautiful thing about this process is that new life/organism/individual get a chance to live and experience the life here on earth. If somebody has gone, it's a call somebody is coming soon. If something/someone you love is gone, be ready with open arms for welcoming something/someone is going to balance it within you. With what is lost, just be hopeful and live your life.
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