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How Nofab is different from Brahmacharya?

When you are practicing self-control and ways to improve your life you might have wondered why my life is at the pit in the first place? Then the answer is, not taking the ownership of your life. Doing things whenever you feel like it. Here comes the answer: SELF-CONTROL Whether you are practicing nofab or  brahmacharya, I want to congratulate you for stepping into things that are good for you and your health. So what is the difference? In simple words nofab is step 1 on the level of self-control and brahmacharya is level 10.  Lets dive deep into this terms to understand each on better. Nofab Any man or woman practicing nofab will stay away from sexual activities and control there urge for any kind of sexual activities with the help of there inner will only, that is tough I would say.  In order to stay pure they will seek online advice and find some mentor to guide them. Eventually they will find out that they have to keep themselves engaged into something to burn there e...

I have feelings for her but she has a boyfriend

Disappointed man Address your feelings, analyse why you have this feelings? Ofcourse because you are human and humans do have feelings.  When it comes to others there is always a good reason why you feel someway about someone? How you've been treated by the other person everytime you had an encounter with that person? Why you feel there is a connection? Yes! Pheromones there genetic make up and other aspects that make us feel attracted towards someone is there but you will be attracted once, twice or as long as the person is around. You will eventually forget about the person in the long run. But if that's not happening then there must be a good reason why you can't let the person go. What is it that is missing and why do you want to be with this person? Okay! What is the ultimate thing you want with this person? What kind of relationship you want with this person? Give yourself time. Life won't be and it was never about you and your own self. The people in your life ma...

Is heaven actually a higher planet?

Exoplanet Existence of heaven is a lot like existence of God. You never saw him but you know in your heart that the God does exist and he is guiding you at times and he is the reason you are alive. I do not know whether heaven exists or not, neither I've seen it with my eyes. There are different believes among different people, religion and texts but they are all based on something that has been passed on by generations or found in religious texts. Heaven is a place where people want to go but they do not know where it is, neither Google map can locate it. Heaven is a place that is good, rich and has got everything you will ever need. This place would be pleasing for somebody who is not rich does not have enough in this life that is the reason he or she is eager to know whether there is a heaven or not. To have hope to go there by their good deeds if that's the way. Real or just a possibility? There are so many planets in our galaxy and there are so many galaxies in our univers...

Home environment not good for me what to do?

You cannot do anything about the other people in your life. The least you could do is to save yourself from the harm they are doing or possibly can do. What is not good?  There must be some activities in your home you do not like or the people in your home. Address them to your people that I do not like this. Until somebody stoods up and tell that you are having problem with things people think they are doing it right. If it's not gonna kill you speak up! what is it you do not like tell them in a polite way. Maintain your distance if it is something you cannot control. Gather alliance in your family and take help from neighbors if required. How long does it lasts? Is it something that happens for 1-2 mins like some quarrels or scolding you get on a monthly basis or it is something you have to go through daily? How bearable it is? Can you seek some help from your other family members and neighbors? Take help from others. Or this is something you keep playing in your head all the tim...

I am married but I have feelings for someone and want to be with that person

A married person having feelings for someone other than there spouse is a quite complicated thing. Because there are many layers into this, quite like a movie. Do you like movies? A simple answer would be just stop your communication with the other person and be with your spouse talk to her/him and tell your spouse that you have feelings for someone. How your spouse is and How you are is the first thing you should address. How long you've been together? How was your marriage together? Do you talk to your spouse often or you do not find time for him/her just because of your work. We are humans we get attached to dogs if we spend enough time with a dog. I would say do not ruin your marriage if your spouse is a good person. Your spouse is your spouse for a good reason. You should consider the things your spouse do for you. If your spouse is not doing it. Talk to them. Talking to your spouse solves the 90% of your problem and if your spouse does not want to talk and just walks away eve...