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Home environment not good for me what to do?



You cannot do anything about the other people in your life. The least you could do is to save yourself from the harm they are doing or possibly can do.

What is not good? 

There must be some activities in your home you do not like or the people in your home. Address them to your people that I do not like this. Until somebody stoods up and tell that you are having problem with things people think they are doing it right. If it's not gonna kill you speak up! what is it you do not like tell them in a polite way. Maintain your distance if it is something you cannot control. Gather alliance in your family and take help from neighbors if required.

How long does it lasts?

Is it something that happens for 1-2 mins like some quarrels or scolding you get on a monthly basis or it is something you have to go through daily? How bearable it is? Can you seek some help from your other family members and neighbors? Take help from others. Or this is something you keep playing in your head all the time?

Is there a way out?

Can you live on your own? if it is not killing you survive and gather up all your strength. And prepare for your departure to a safe place. Find any work you can get and hide this work from your guardians because if they got to know there is possibility your money will be taken away. Contact people you know who are doing some kind of work and make a list of such people, call them one by one and try to get a job away from your home.

How do I save myself?

Limit your contact, obey the people in your home and maintain a distance.

When I should consider escape?

What is it that is bothering you? Do you get scolded because of your addictions? Does the people who scold you have good intentions towards you? Are you being sexually exploited? Do they tie you up and beat you so bad? Your situation could be any of these or may be worst. This will change and nothing lasts forever in this world. Have hope and best of luck.

Consider calling on the following helpline number and visiting there site for more information and getting professional help

 9152987821   Visit

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