Skip to main content

Home environment not good for me what to do?

By Prem Kaithwas


You cannot do anything about the other people in your life. The least you could do is to save yourself from the harm they are doing or possibly can do.

What is not good? 

There must be some activities in your home you do not like or the people in your home. Address them to your people that I do not like this. Until somebody stoods up and tell that you are having problem with things people think they are doing it right. If it's not gonna kill you speak up! what is it you do not like tell them in a polite way. Maintain your distance if it is something you cannot control. Gather alliance in your family and take help from neighbors if required.

How long does it lasts?

Is it something that happens for 1-2 mins like some quarrels or scolding you get on a monthly basis or it is something you have to go through daily? How bearable it is? Can you seek some help from your other family members and neighbors? Take help from others. Or this is something you keep playing in your head all the time?

Is there a way out?

Can you live on your own? if it is not killing you survive and gather up all your strength. And prepare for your departure to a safe place. Find any work you can get and hide this work from your guardians because if they got to know there is possibility your money will be taken away. Contact people you know who are doing some kind of work and make a list of such people, call them one by one and try to get a job away from your home.

How do I save myself?

Limit your contact, obey the people in your home and maintain a distance.

When I should consider escape?

What is it that is bothering you? Do you get scolded because of your addictions? Does the people who scold you have good intentions towards you? Are you being sexually exploited? Do they tie you up and beat you so bad? Your situation could be any of these or may be worst. This will change and nothing lasts forever in this world. Have hope and best of luck.

Consider calling on the following helpline number and visiting there site for more information and getting professional help

 9152987821   Visit

Labels

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

100 Reasons to Stay Alive — Small Joys & Big Why’s

By Prem Kaithwas
Life can feel heavy sometimes. When it does, a simple reminder of what makes living meaningful can help. This list mixes small comforts and long-term goals — plus a few short anecdotes — to pull you back when the weight feels too much. Keep this page handy.
Post a Comment
read more..

how to stop thinking about work?

By Prem Kaithwas
Are you on a vacation but can't stop thinking about your work? You might be a responsible person but that is not the reason you are thinking about it. Your routine is changed recently and you are in a new environment that is new to you. We are people of habits and actions.  Get away with the tools you use for your work or things that get your brain to work on. Your mobile, your laptop, camera or anything that trigger you to open it and check something or do something because you do not have anything to do. What could go wrong when you will be back on work. This thing is most common and reveals that you are scared of something or someone. Know that thing is important because you are giving it importance may be more than your health, your relationships and things that are actually important. Exercise is important but not always, drinking water is important but not always so work is important but not always. What you've chosen is to take a break, make sure that you are taking a br...
Post a Comment
read more..

Makefile – A Simple Way to Automate Your Commands

By Prem Kaithwas
Have you ever found yourself typing the same long command again and again in a project, and thought… "Life would be so much easier if I didn’t have to type this every single time" ? That’s exactly where a Makefile can help you. What is a Makefile? A Makefile is just a plain text file where you define shortcuts for your commands. It tells the make command what to do when you type something like: make up Instead of writing the whole long command every time, you just run make with the shortcut you defined. A Simple Example Let’s say you’re working with Docker and the command to start your app looks like this: docker-compose -f docker-compose.development.yml up Typing this again and again is boring. Instead, create a file named Makefile in your project root and add this: up: docker-compose -f docker-compose.development.yml up Now, all you need to do is run: make up Boom! Much shorter, much cleaner. Adding More Commands You can add as many shortcuts as you want inside yo...
Post a Comment
read more..